why so EMO?
I’m trying hard not to fall into the state of unhappiness because that will only lead to the state of depression.
I just find it hard to believe that some people can be so emotionally orientated, so selfish, so self-centered, so unreasonable, so whatever-lar. An overnight 360degree mood change.
She can just keep repeating that she feels what I have done is not fair to her. And by showing a sour face, ignoring and put-off words is suppose to break you down (emotionally).
She feels & can even suggest that I should wait another 3-months (starting end of this month so my colleague could go on leave & another 2-month for her to come back from maternity).
Well, I can feel too, and I feel that she is just not happy that I am leaving before her, that I found a job before her.
And after accessing the bigger picture (leaving out the emotions), I feel that, it is far-way not fair too me either, just because heaven’s opportunity knock on me, and she wants me to give it up for her own personal reason, now that is unreasonable.
Can you tell the-new-company to wait for you for three whole months? How is that fair on my end? Is my future not my own decision to determine? Just because I make my own decision, I am at fault, what nonsense is that.
Making a decision is not easy, there is no right nor wrong either. It is all a risk.
(when you decide to buy a hotdog by the roadside, is there no risk of you getting sick??)
Another thing is, I do not really know whether it is a normal practice or taking advantage. Handling over and finishing ones’ jobs at hand is normal.
But taking new projects and expect a 80% completion within a month so that the remaining 20% follow-up can help push/show how efficient/capable you can be even without your right-hand key-man.
Now I called that taking advantage, why I say that is because 3-new projects in within a month.
Can I decline? Maybe I am too nice plus am still an employee till the day I leave.
